May 08

salam and hi to all...

it has been quite sometime since i last update my blog... i was busy and just couldn't find the right timing to update it... will just briefly update it...

the first week of may was my busiest week among all... my work scheduled was really tight and having a non cooperative colleague add on the pressure to me... so i was stressed and tired... on the following week, i was in the office trying to get all my paperworks done... so it was quite ok for me... and the third week i had site visit for the whole day and this is the last week of the month and i had a site visit on one of the day... you know i was so tired with works that i spent almost all my weekend resting at home... i guess didn't really meet my friends for this month....

dad's birthday was celebrated moderately where we went for dinner and bought him a shoe as the birthday present.... ahmad's birthday we celebrated it at chilis and we got him his dream hp... won't get him a hp anymore since this is the second hp that i'm getting for him... luckily this time i'm sharing it with my sis... fuhhhh.....

something happen on the 3rd week of may... on 18 may 08, MD called me at 7am... obviously i was still sleeping n was kind of blur... she told me that i'm driving after an ambulance and i was asking y must you tail back an ambulance than she told me that aunty is in it... i was shock to hear that as this is the first time that aunty was taken to the hospital in an ambulance... by 11am i sms her asking how is aunty doing... than she replied at almost noon informing me that the doc has asked all of them to stay there and do not leave the hospital as aunty condition is very weak.... the doc also told them to inform all the relatives... reading the sms i know that aunty is not in a good condition... informed my parent and that evening we went to visit aunty... i cried when i saw aunty... it was sad to see her in that condition... the only thing that we could do at that time is to pray to Allah that aunty pain will be lessen and if the time has come may she go in peace... MD told me that she accept it if the time has come rather than seeing aunty in that condition... there was no changes on monday and on tuesday morning, MD sms me saying that aunty leg is flat now... by than we know that the time is not much... i went to visit aunty again at noon with my boss cum MD's bro in law... there is no improvement... i left the hospital at about 2.30pm... it was about 5.30pm i received phone call from MD saying that aunty has passed away... innalillah... i cried when i heard the news... we hand up and i immediately took the leave form and apply for leave for the next day... i just need to be there for her... aunty was burried on 21 may 08 at about 10.30am at jln kuching.. at the graveyard certain people was saying that arwah aunty and arwah uncle are real soulmate... arwah uncle was born on 11 nov and arwah aunty was born on 11 may... arwah uncle passed away on 19 may 04 and arwah aunty passed away on 20 may 08... and their grave yard is next to each other... MD was quite ok this time compared to when uncle passed away, may be because she has accepted from the moment aunty condition was worsen in the hospital... at the moment MD is not sure where to stay... everyone has offered her to stay with them including my family... for time being MD is staying alternately at her bro house in bangi and her sis house in sg buaya... MD is doing ok so far, alhamdulillah...